Japanese Etiquette 101: A Guide to Bowing, Greetings, and Everyday Manners
Navigating social interactions in Japan can feel complex due to the emphasis on politeness and non-verbal communication. At its core, Japanese etiquette is about showing respect to others and maintaining wa, or social harmony, by following established social norms.
The Art of Bowing (Ojigi)
Bowing is the most fundamental non-verbal gesture in Japan. While it is used for greetings, it is also used to express gratitude, apologies, or respect. The depth and duration of the bow generally correspond to the level of respect being shown:
- Eshaku (Casual bow): A slight bend of the upper torso (about 15 degrees). This is common when passing acquaintances or entering a shop.
- Keirei (Respectful bow): A deeper bend (about 30 degrees). This is used in business settings, when meeting clients, or when addressing superiors.
- Saikeirei (Highest respect): A very deep bow (45 degrees or more). This is reserved for profound apologies or meeting individuals of extremely high status.
When bowing, keep your back straight and your hands at your sides (for men) or clasped in front (for women). Avoid making eye contact while bowing, as looking someone in the eye during a deep bow can be seen as aggressive.
Greetings and Verbal Politeness
Greetings in Japan change depending on the time of day and the relationship you have with the person. Using the correct greeting shows that you are mindful of social context.
- Ohayou gozaimasu: Good morning. Use the full version for superiors or strangers; "Ohayou" alone is for friends and family.
- Konnichiwa: Good afternoon. This is a standard, versatile greeting used during the day.
- Konbanwa: Good evening. Used once the sun has set.
- Arigatou gozaimasu: Thank you. Always use the "gozaimasu" suffix when speaking to staff, teachers, or people you do not know well to remain polite.
Everyday Public Manners
Living or traveling in Japan requires an awareness of how your behavior affects those around you. Small actions can make a big difference in maintaining public order.
- Quiet on public transport: On trains and buses, it is expected that you keep your voice low. Avoid talking on mobile phones; instead, switch your device to "manner mode" (silent mode).
- Handling money: When paying at a convenience store or restaurant, look for a small tray (often blue) near the register. Place your cash or card on the tray rather than handing it directly to the staff.
- Trash etiquette: Public trash cans can be difficult to find. It is common practice to carry your trash with you until you return home or find a designated recycling station.
Good to Know
- Eye contact: While direct eye contact is common in many Western cultures, prolonged staring in Japan can be perceived as confrontational.
- Gift giving: If you are invited to someone's home, bringing a small gift (temiyage) is a highly appreciated gesture.
- Shoes: Always check if you need to remove your shoes when entering a home, a traditional ryokan, or certain temples and restaurants.
Official information
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